@evolgrinz Aye, the biggest thing for me is that I get disgusted by the whole trash talking stuff (not disturbed so I lose any edge as so many of the proponents say they do it for). I just don't really care to be around that. So I play less there, and contribute less funds. The only people who really get anything out of the result of that trash talk around me, are those who cheer for PvP based games to fail and die.
So instead of playing PvP as often, I started looking for other things to enjoy. I still have fun going out and kicking butt (or getting my butt kicked) depending on things, but... if there was less of the annoying crap that I dislike in those regards I'd be more likely to do so more frequently.
As to open world PvP, and the tendencies toward ambushes and attacking people with severe disadvantages in MMOs, I find that less in good fun. At the same time, I know that's what some people enjoy. So, as usual, my goal around that is to promote the idea of diverse games (AKA, instead of every open world PvP game having no rules, pushing for a mixture of different ideas that leave games for those who like the no-rules PvP but also games where there are rules of engagement). I believe there are many who refuse to play PvP games at all, due solely to the entire push for no-rules. Because, as most anyone who has experience with that setup understands, it provides every benefit to those who wish to hunt down others for whatever reason, and leaves no real chance for anything else (because anything else being done is just a target).