@jameow said in Are you a PVP or PVE player?:
@jetah It depends what people are looking for. Some people don't find other players challenging or rewarding to fight, just irritating. Some people feel anxious in those sorts of situations and just don't get anything out of it.
It also depends on the game. Sometimes people are just not equipped for it, and so they're at a disadvantage. Some people don't have a connection that would make them competitive in a serious fight, or they don't have the reaction time. Sometimes PvP just comes down to who has the better gear or is more ontop of the metagame, while other people have no interest in that, so they don't win fights or care enough to want to. For some it just triggers a flight response. Other times it's just that often attacks are opportunistic, rarely a fair fight and so for a lot of people it's just more trouble than it's worth, disrupting their enjoyment, rather than enhancing it.
Personally, I just have to be in the mood for it to enjoy it. I'm rarely in that mood. If attacked, I'll defend myself but otherwise I'm not looking for a fight.
I always try to get combat experience out of pvp. if I lose/die, figure out how I died how to counter it-if possible and can I use it next fight or sometime in the future.
I was the temid player back in the day which didn't like pvp. I died in UO joining a friends private server and that made me never want to pvp again. but I moved on and learned to enjoy the combat. I played Overwatch so much that playing Destiny 2 was a huge let down because the AI is so simple. It's been a while since I've remembered my anti-pvp days.