@PeachMcD said in Really Disappointed.: @Xzoviac - I totally grok the urge to kick asshats where it hurts. And we all have different definitions of what sort of asshattery deserves kicking. That's why I suggested that individuals use DMs instead of making a public display of their righteous indignation. I'm not at all the goody-two-shoes you might be assuming I am; I'm just an old lady who's been around the block enough times to know what works and what doesn't. I've learned to pick my battles, and acting as 'tone police' isn't my gig. I will, however, raise my hand and beg to differ when the testosterone level surges beyond any attempt at constructive dialog. I know it may surprise some to hear it, but desiring some Kumbaya/Compassion/Golden Rule in an community isn't actually a sin, and doesn't necessarily make a person weak or stupid. Rock licking? Well i dont think you are weak or stupid, and i dont know what you consider old, I think we are just on different Spectrum when it comes to, dealing with individuals. for 15 years i played a hardcore PVP Korean MMO, running a guild. At one point our guild was fighting the 5 other big guilds all at the same time thanks to my personality if people fell out in my guild, we didint have a chat about it if the 2 people involved couldnt work it out between themselves i made them both fight to the death in the "palace" (the free pvp zone with out pk points or loot drops), the loser was kicked out the guild and became our enemy. I Like your personality Peach, its refreshing to see kind people, im just not one of them