Oh yes in real life it's so easy to know someone's a hostile person when there name isn't painted red above there heads. Even when some of the most brutal serial killer look and act like a normal person.
Anyone else getting the "Notice me senpai, notice me!" vibe from this guy and his forum posts? You do know this is a full loot PvP game right? No ones going to initiate a fight with a warning or yell "I'm going to attack you now!" in local chat. If someone wanted to duel they'll type in chat or maybe do a couple spins for friendliness. But if someone is coming towards you and gets within range it's your fault for just standing there with your thumb up your ass. Especially when that player has their name in a bright red color.